Because most of “the signs” they tell you are garbage If you try to Google “how to know you’re in love,” you’re gonna have a bad time Because it’s mostly shit advice. Here’s a small sampling: “They’re always on your mind” This is infatuation. If someone’s “always” on your mind, you’re not focused on other Really Important Things. And that’s a problem. Real love fits into real life, rather than usurping it. It’s calm, not overwhelming. They’re your ‘everything’” Ditto. “You see them in your future” “When I imagined my future job/location/adopted dog, they were always in the background of my imagination helping me out with whatever I was doing. My future just didn’t really make sense without them around.” Well, I mean, damn. You fantasize long and hard enough, you can see anything in your future — like I could imagine moving to Switzerland to be a goat farmer. That doesn’t mean I should. The problem is that we’ve made “love” into a game of escapism, and measure potential partners by how
Title: Unleashing the Art of Dating: Techniques for a Successful Journey Introduction: Dating can be an exhilarating yet sometimes complicated adventure filled with excitement, passion, and the possibility of finding a meaningful connection with someone. Just like any other skill, mastering the art of dating involves acquiring knowledge and developing effective techniques to enhance your experience. In this article, we will explore some tried-and-tested dating techniques that can help you navigate the uncertain waters of modern dating successfully. So, let's dive in! 1. Self-Reflection and Clarity: Before embarking on your dating journey, it's crucial to engage in self-reflection and establish clarity about what you are seeking in a potential partner. Understanding your values, goals, and desires will allow you to identify compatible partners and make better choices. Take time to define your own identity, interests, and establish healthy boundaries to ensure you attract partne