Because most of “the signs” they tell you are garbage If you try to Google “how to know you’re in love,” you’re gonna have a bad time Because it’s mostly shit advice. Here’s a small sampling: “They’re always on your mind” This is infatuation. If someone’s “always” on your mind, you’re not focused on other Really Important Things. And that’s a problem. Real love fits into real life, rather than usurping it. It’s calm, not overwhelming. They’re your ‘everything’” Ditto. “You see them in your future” “When I imagined my future job/location/adopted dog, they were always in the background of my imagination helping me out with whatever I was doing. My future just didn’t really make sense without them around.” Well, I mean, damn. You fantasize long and hard enough, you can see anything in your future — like I could imagine moving to Switzerland to be a goat farmer. That doesn’t mean I should. The problem is that we’ve made “love” into a game of escapism, and measure potential partners by how
Expressing love and appreciation to someone doesn't always have to come in the form of grand gestures or big presents. Sometimes, it's the small tokens of affection that can make a big impact on how someone feels loved and valued. Here are some ideas for little gifts that can help you show love and affection to someone special in your life: 1. Homemade treats - Baking or cooking something yourself can be a simple yet heartfelt way to show someone you care. It could be their favorite cookies, a loaf of bread, or a special meal. 2. Personalized note or card - A handwritten note or card with a heartfelt message can mean a lot to someone, especially in this digital age. Take some time to write out your thoughts and feelings and let them know just how much they mean to you. 3. A small piece of jewelry - A simple necklace, bracelet or pair of earrings can be a nice surprise for someone special. Look for something that reflects their taste and style. 4. A favorite book or movie - Giv