Because most of “the signs” they tell you are garbage If you try to Google “how to know you’re in love,” you’re gonna have a bad time Because it’s mostly shit advice. Here’s a small sampling: “They’re always on your mind” This is infatuation. If someone’s “always” on your mind, you’re not focused on other Really Important Things. And that’s a problem. Real love fits into real life, rather than usurping it. It’s calm, not overwhelming. They’re your ‘everything’” Ditto. “You see them in your future” “When I imagined my future job/location/adopted dog, they were always in the background of my imagination helping me out with whatever I was doing. My future just didn’t really make sense without them around.” Well, I mean, damn. You fantasize long and hard enough, you can see anything in your future — like I could imagine moving to Switzerland to be a goat farmer. That doesn’t mean I should. The problem is that we’ve made “love” into a game of escapism, and measure potential partners by how
Cooking a delicious meal for your loved one is a simple yet powerful gesture that can show your affection and love in a tangible way. Whether it's a special occasion like a birthday or anniversary, or simply a way to surprise and delight your partner, cooking an appetite-pleasing meal can be a romantic and meaningful way to express your feelings. To start, think about your partner's favorite cuisine, ingredients and flavors. Do they have a sweet tooth? Are they a fan of spicy dishes? Consider any dietary restrictions, food allergies or preferences that your loved one may have as well. This shows that you are thoughtful and attentive to their needs and wants. Next, plan out the menu for the meal. This can be a three-course meal or something simpler like a pasta dish or a homemade pizza. Don't be afraid to try out new recipes and experiment with different ingredients that you know they'll love. If you're unsure about what to make, you can always ask for their input o