Because most of “the signs” they tell you are garbage If you try to Google “how to know you’re in love,” you’re gonna have a bad time Because it’s mostly shit advice. Here’s a small sampling: “They’re always on your mind” This is infatuation. If someone’s “always” on your mind, you’re not focused on other Really Important Things. And that’s a problem. Real love fits into real life, rather than usurping it. It’s calm, not overwhelming. They’re your ‘everything’” Ditto. “You see them in your future” “When I imagined my future job/location/adopted dog, they were always in the background of my imagination helping me out with whatever I was doing. My future just didn’t really make sense without them around.” Well, I mean, damn. You fantasize long and hard enough, you can see anything in your future — like I could imagine moving to Switzerland to be a goat farmer. That doesn’t mean I should. The problem is that we’ve made “love” into a game of escapism, and measure potential partners by how
In recent years, there has been a growing conversation around gender equity and inclusion in various aspects of life, including business, education, and politics. However, one area that is often overlooked is girls' inclusion, particularly the role men play in creating safe and inclusive spaces for girls.
There is no doubt that girls face unique challenges that require action to address. For example, girls often face discrimination and exclusion in a range of areas, including access to education and employment. In many cultures, girls are subjected to harmful traditional practices like female genital mutilation and child marriage. As a result, girls are more likely to face poverty and lack of opportunity compared to boys, and they often experience significant barriers to realizing their full potential.
However, to create lasting change, it is crucial to acknowledge and engage men in the conversation around girls' inclusion. Men are not only part of the problem but also part of the solution. We need to recognize that men have valuable perspectives and experiences that can help us understand and address the root causes of gender inequality.
Engaging men in a dialogue around girls' inclusion requires a shift in mindset. It means moving away from the notion that gender equality is solely a "women's issue" and recognizing that it affects everyone. By promoting girls' equality and creating inclusive environments, we can reap the benefits of a more equitable and just society for all.
There are various ways in which men can help advance the inclusion and empowerment of girls. Here are just a few:
Support Education
Education is a critical tool for girls' empowerment, but in many parts of the world, girls face significant barriers to accessing education. Men can play a crucial role in breaking down these barriers by advocating for equal opportunities in education and supporting programs that promote girls' education.
Challenge Harmful Norms
Many harmful gender norms perpetuate inequality and undermine girls' potential. Men can help break down these norms by challenging them in their personal and professional lives. For example, men can speak out against sexist or degrading language and behaviors in their workplace or community.
Promote Positive Masculinity
Traditional ideas of masculinity often reinforce toxic behaviors and attitudes that perpetuate gender inequality. Men can challenge these ideas by promoting positive masculinity, which involves embracing traits like compassion, empathy, and vulnerability. Role models who embrace positive masculinity can help encourage boys and young men to do the same, which can help create more equitable and inclusive societies.
Amplify Girls' Voices
Girls' voices are often marginalized in social, political, and economic discussions. Men can help elevate these voices by actively listening to girls and amplifying their messages. This can involve advocating for girls' inclusion in leadership positions or media platforms where their voices can be heard and valued.
Be an Ally
Ultimately, creating inclusive spaces for girls requires men to be allies in the fight for gender equality. This means recognizing their own privilege and using it to support girls' empowerment. It involves being willing to listen, learn, and take action to address the root causes of inequality.
Finally,we cannot achieve gender equality unless we engage men in the conversation around girls' inclusion. By recognizing the role that men have to play in creating safe and inclusive spaces for girls, we can work together to build a more equitable and just society for all. Through education, challenge of harmful norms, positive promotion of masculinity, girls' voices and being an ally, men can make a difference in girls' inclusion in society.
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