Because most of “the signs” they tell you are garbage If you try to Google “how to know you’re in love,” you’re gonna have a bad time Because it’s mostly shit advice. Here’s a small sampling: “They’re always on your mind” This is infatuation. If someone’s “always” on your mind, you’re not focused on other Really Important Things. And that’s a problem. Real love fits into real life, rather than usurping it. It’s calm, not overwhelming. They’re your ‘everything’” Ditto. “You see them in your future” “When I imagined my future job/location/adopted dog, they were always in the background of my imagination helping me out with whatever I was doing. My future just didn’t really make sense without them around.” Well, I mean, damn. You fantasize long and hard enough, you can see anything in your future — like I could imagine moving to Switzerland to be a goat farmer. That doesn’t mean I should. The problem is that we’ve made “love” into a game of escapism, and measure potential partners by how
Prior, It is truly important in your life, It is never not many, Only just yourself、relative、, and your object, and extra plus two intimate, Else relationship, It not important of most, Also don't worth us to spend too much of the time and energy.
Second, Didn't necessary to own too much, Enable safety and health live, Nothing else accident, The body was nothing serious bug, This is already rather enough.
Third, either person they have a few little of the frustration, And all have some little achievement other small many encounter setback.
Fourth, Gradually we could perceive, Self is actually also just one ordinary, Not change this society at all, but Could change ourselves through this society, It is very well yet.
The fifth, Regardless it was which kind of personality, All exist its advantage point, We don't necessarily always want to change yourself, change others the image, Need to do, It was stretch yourself of personality
The sixth, The ripe it wasn't said becomes quite clever, on contrary permit self don't intervene others,Frankly, acceptable the all when it happened, When see through the life truth then, Still love this world, Always good to life.
The seventh,The others recognize, It not important really, Recognize yourself it is important, Know self who am i, Want how's life and where you want to go.
The eighth, The carrier and love as well, Many stuff, slowly a bit, It doesn't matter really, We haven't too catch up with the time, and Also haven't necessary too hurry.
Ninth, We must have independent ideas, and independent thinking ability, Likewise also permit others own different express viewpoints, Anyway it is right or not, Just treat things different from its angel, Either its growth environment is different, and Mutual recognition existing differences.
The tenth, The monetary is of course important, Definitely good to make money when you are younger, When you had earned money meanwhile, Also definitely couldn't overspent, Know the deposit, for in future intention.
The eleventh, With different people life get along, Preceive it really very don't different, The most important stuff in the life,It is for yourself to seek a best of spouse, One of a good spouse,It could treatment of another person its aftermath, On the contrary,one of a bad object, Who makes us dropped from heaven to hell.
The twelfth, Not condition to love yourself, Not condition confident, there is a steady core, When the self has enough even stable, So it didn't exist what, Who could press flop slip yourself.
The thirteen, The meaning of life, Not so mystery, If ordinary, So take care yourself and around it, Make self life happier a bit, If own that ability, On this base, for this world to devote what, contribution a bit strength.
The fourteen, The time for everyone to say, It was fair, Just it every one the time of the thick, Use these time to do something, It different, Also right due to everyone its choice different, Then, each gap beginning trend repel.
The fifteen, The life it wasn't fixed, It was a choice, looks our lifetime seems rather long time, has eighty years on average, Actually the key It was, Just several steps only, Such as in crossroad of one's lifetime, which road It choose, When getting into the marriage, Too choose It was how's person.
The sixteen, That want do things, Whenever begining do it,It not late,Top important it was, go Action! Dare start Now!
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