The adult them also experienced of marriaged, Might also know won't get happiness, Does why still prompt theirs the children step into as like theirs life circle?

        For the young person to say, Numerous its has common of doubt, Around whoever saw of the parents of marriage don't good, Two people of their relationship don't concord, But they still will prompt their children to get married soon

    Too much of parents, Along this, does rule

    They were various of kind forces to marriage, Usually still will cause a young person to produce an idea, If don't get married might owe theirs alike, Don't get married even self have how big ability, Still equal zero, Incompletely ideas if one person doesn't marry theirs lifetime.

    Equal seems like the children get married yet, The all well start, Just the children to the marriage, Whatever it with who, Nothing matter.

    The parents why do this? While they don't realize the young people, Opposite the young people could realize them.

    Rather, Was their conception, Stay in the past, Was them quite an attention around of people theirs remark, Quite an emphasis their face, Was them ever by care them of trick, But they never put the children as an independent of the individual, Devoting them deserving of respect and space.

    Old thread, Who thinks the marriage was necessary

    Exactly say, The parents of that generations elder, In theirs, realized, The marriage it was necessary of program.

   Wasn't together for certain people, More happiness might, On the contrary, which sense was a selfish task, Must finish itself, The quality it a bit don't important, Anyway must step in gets married to one person of this path, Cause has these ideas, They order self equal like this, When to have the children, Likewise order the children along the old path samsara.

    At that time, They won't consider too many, The marriage it ever takes self what? Self was how's an encounter, They answer rather has truth, Said the marriage was that shape originally, It didn't absolutely flawless, Realized it and compromise.

   Yes, The era has progressed, But they still haven't changed, They always still stay in the past.

   Who sensation must get married at twenty several years old, Soon get married, Then soon have a baby, That was of real-life shape.

    But the young people don't accept theirs like of track samsara, No married always, If still meeting a suitable of the love object, They also wouldn't acceptable, That still will sense awful, The matter it shouldn't was that shape.

    Whoever knew it was the young people who make a decision, But they just sense where their task hasn't finished, They also still thought, If don't get married ever, When they age older might more difficult to match marriage, When it oldest after how to do too?

    The children didn't get marriaged, which Caused them to haven't the face.

    

   The parents have friends, and they near have similar the age of colleague

   In the spare time, They actually would compare people's differences, They will compare the villa、the sedan, and the occupation, also might the children, When young compare to score When growth compare to marriage.

    Reaching this stage, If near people have a daughter-in-law, son-in-law, and grandson, But they always yet not, They couldn't accept, That who realized haven't the face.

    Procede those people, Even they couldn't raise the head go straight walk, Seems self lose, Backward many.

   Gradually, They still start anxiety, Themself couldn't release off these emotions, Beginning to children press pressure, Inspire the children soon also looks marry the object, Get married soon, and have a baby.

    

   Fantasy passed this kind the way, Front other people wins a victory, Who do this also make self promote the strength whichever aspect.

   They are eventually Not cleverer than the young people, They more focusing of their feeling, On the contrary, they carefully, Feel the nearby crowd are attention, Reason the children scrap matter, and Might point to themselves.

    Just extend family descendants， Put the children as a victim.

   Exactly, In our this place, Numerous parents, They were rather fatuous, 

   When them are young, Busy for life, Take care the children, When waiting the children growth become adults, Still must pay attention to their children the house and the car, About the marriage, When waiting for the children already own a family, The next to still help to take care their children.

  That ever for pay out the energy to them, Who pouring out of the all energy, Taka care for a half of lifetime, Really payout too much, But also just sense the life it as this shape, Everyone also just like this to life around, Also have to continue to this life.

    When them custom like this life forever, For the children had payout too much, The parents of course perceived who must comply self, Should continue to extend the family of descendant, Then likewise soon have they baby and nourish them, Who follow the parents of rule line to life.

   Haven't too much discipline, They never recognize the children belong an independent individual, They just will sense the children should have responsibility、obligation, Should limit bunch by elder parents.

   Sometimes, those Who really begin morality abduction, Felt self grievance, Reason the children have violated self-principle discipline, and don't comply with the parents.

   Much of the time, The parents seem looks to be adults, Carrying up much stuff, In their psyche still stays in the children's era.

   Never good love themself, For the children love, It looks seem like devoted, Actually it was selfish, Take not less of additional condition.

    Nearby whoever the parents them life Wasn't quite concord, Opposite they still prompt the children to get married soon, Caused they quite an anxiety.

They perceived the children get married and have the baby early, That's one person it should fixed of the life circle.

   They cannot continue to admit, The children don't follow the parents sets of life track to go.

    In their psyche, They have customs and discipline, Who follow that discipline, Thought doesn't happiness, It was right for them to realize, Like this belief, Probability will cause it always to continue like that.

    Once broken up this discipline, The young people No comply their discipline, They would have a kind of point to intrusion the sensation, Don't acceptable, Eventually, they don't acceptance, the effort to correct, That who forced the young person back to the parents theirs make discipline.

   Exactly to talking, all parents in the world, Certainly they haven't who don't love theirs the children, Yet, theirs love, Might it didn't definitely were really the love.

    These were two generation persondifferences, Were different people for life to pursued different, Eventually difficult to solutions.

    

    As a child, When have to meet like this parents, Indeed upset, But whatever, Comfort them, But also absolutely don't comply, To marriage ever still seriously, Don't casually marriage, If yes also must definitely to a choice that who was fit yourself that people.