Because most of “the signs” they tell you are garbage If you try to Google “how to know you’re in love,” you’re gonna have a bad time Because it’s mostly shit advice. Here’s a small sampling: “They’re always on your mind” This is infatuation. If someone’s “always” on your mind, you’re not focused on other Really Important Things. And that’s a problem. Real love fits into real life, rather than usurping it. It’s calm, not overwhelming. They’re your ‘everything’” Ditto. “You see them in your future” “When I imagined my future job/location/adopted dog, they were always in the background of my imagination helping me out with whatever I was doing. My future just didn’t really make sense without them around.” Well, I mean, damn. You fantasize long and hard enough, you can see anything in your future — like I could imagine moving to Switzerland to be a goat farmer. That doesn’t mean I should. The problem is that we’ve made “love” into a game of escapism, and measure potential partners by how
There was certain people it has met one of case
The man income basically stable, Income over fifteen hundred dollars ,When them get married after, He per-month once get his wages, Left several hundred money, Then put left the whole hand the wife, By this for express his emotion.
Either, He Not only would hand, Yet so less to asked.
Whatever She what buy, He wouldn't has the opinion, That person feeling earning money spent on his wife body, This is deserve.
So this life always over many years, Occsiona his father illness need money treatment, He mention up to his wife, Asked how many of deposite in the bank, Self now need a partial, This time he realized, He earning all money basically spend over by her, Basically without left.
Get married then the men hand up the wages, Certainly might cause the girls own the safety, It more benefit the relationship for harmony.
However, It weren't per girls all fit to manage financial, Which manage the family thrive, Understand money proper to plan.
So It whether must hand up, and how to hand up, The better base on self's actually condition case.
Suppose if the housewife so reliable, Understand the money it proper to use , So hand to her , Might also possible deposite a few, Make this family has difinitely left deposit.
If her always favor to purchase various items, Enjoy spend the money, Own what the money at present,So use up it, The person it also looks like don't quite reliable, Advice the better don't entire hand to her, Properly give her a little of routine change, That make her could sensation.
Of course, If each were a very independent of that form, The income enough, Also could either manage self's the money, Either take out of a part deposit, To for a rountine cost, Among this, As a man, If you right now make money more than her, Also could rather pay more a bit, In ordinary, For a red envelops occsional, Make her sense, You was pay attention to her.
In this era, It different of compare to the past earlier.
Although it was couple, It Not difinitely reliable.
Around the monetary, Trustful the object when get married, Good to life forward, But also still remember, Don't the self's wages arbitrarily splurge by her.
Anyhow, If the girls her could tidy this family, So let her do,If not, Yourself to manage.
Too or, Both side if sense which most proper, So how do yours to decision.
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