Because most of “the signs” they tell you are garbage If you try to Google “how to know you’re in love,” you’re gonna have a bad time Because it’s mostly shit advice. Here’s a small sampling: “They’re always on your mind” This is infatuation. If someone’s “always” on your mind, you’re not focused on other Really Important Things. And that’s a problem. Real love fits into real life, rather than usurping it. It’s calm, not overwhelming. They’re your ‘everything’” Ditto. “You see them in your future” “When I imagined my future job/location/adopted dog, they were always in the background of my imagination helping me out with whatever I was doing. My future just didn’t really make sense without them around.” Well, I mean, damn. You fantasize long and hard enough, you can see anything in your future — like I could imagine moving to Switzerland to be a goat farmer. That doesn’t mean I should. The problem is that we’ve made “love” into a game of escapism, and measure potential partners by how
Who wants to own an extremely well of emotions, This was everyone's eagerness.
Tweenty、thirty the age as well, Forty`Fifty the age as well, Suppose it just the age bigger as well, Its lifetime, all people has eager the love.
We all have that forward dreams, But more time, The love it gives us, Seems it wasn't so the good experience, Might often caused forks sorrow.
When our emotion, To the end if it becomes that state, This fact couldn't blame on the love of the source.
Isn't the love not good, It was ourselves, Didn't do good.
Numerous people love and marriage, Certainly, it is not quite good, But it also has else people, Who have reached their life goals, The emotions even, Self-own, Right now it was self wants, Even more, satisfied than in imagine.
If one wants life reached that states, Own a like that the love, Choice properly the object, Known how's exchange the emotions both, It is necessary.
Learned choice, Choice a suitable object for you.
Always has someone said, Get married to life, Whenever it was who, It was same, Just yourself enough excellent, The else people it cannot affect yourself at all, Yourself still life quite happily.
Obviously, These words are just the only words, honey, It is not reality at all.
One violent trend serious, Like bet, Like drinking wine, One of without any to life march the people, Whenever us what good, The object pull us into the hell too, Cause our life, Just rather painful, At all couldn't see any light.
The people morality good, Own the responsibility heart, Got love the object, Know the cold and the hot, It might could with us good to life of that people, We got a warmth temperature, Feeling each life could deserve forward in the future.
The good of love and marriage is, The person is the source, Therefore, When pick an object, We deserve attention don't any reason, Casually pick one object, Only just the object care for self, So don't attention to other.
Definitely don't careless, Definitely open your bright the eyes, slowly to pick, Pick one it per-aspect rather outstanding person.
Absolutely focus the emotions for a person, More important it is, We also definitley have a look the object its morality, Usually daily what it doing, Per-aspect it whether fit self of expect
Know how to management, Could mutual along to effort. Too much amid relationship, Many people surprise, Whoever it has known, Both each IT was quite matched, Yet together life after, Their life didn't how's, It don't have a passage of good relationship, To the end, They life get along show quite tired.
Caused this case, This might themself good in others eyes, Yet for each two, IT wasn't too much care and patient.
Too might be said, Each has good to treat the double side, But it might don't have use the right ways.
Someone it really was interesting, It treat outside strangers, However for self near familiar people quite stingy.
Meanwhile, there are at all who don't know how to treat others, That always by kindly to others with name tricks, Various to require the others side, Consequence so tired self, Meanwhile, the others side tired too, That wants to escape.
Two people life together, The life IT was how's states, It was self's things, How to treat the others side, That was more important.
It was a feel of love, It more an ability of love, If want together concord, That requires could good communication, If could be done it, That don't always stand self's angle to think the problem, To order the others, It was more change the position to think, Mutual inclusion.
Inclusion of each other it was the best way, More to care a little for each, And also good to response to each other of requirements.
Make each feeling comfortable, Self was loving by others, As like this, the each's relationship naturally was so good.
All more inclusion a little, More think the good aspect
The person it weren't absolutely per-aspect excellent, We impossible have what perfect, Who met the person it was too.
So, In fact, it never has whom, That person completely matched of the another person's expectations.
Two people life together, It also won't didn't have happened the quarrel branch, It always have, There is has against、qurral and disgusting.
If everytimes has happened what problem, Everytimes each's opinion don't agreement, In that after, The all don't satisfy, All put in the heart, That will always remember, Might always and occasional take it outcome, That might who special angry, The others it also quite angry too.
Under this case, your relationship, Just would the more trend terrible, Both side feel heart tired.
If don't want each's emotions that become this state, We must definitely learn how to process, Go to resolution of each scar in the heart, Go to feeling each's that care, And also must learn with a good state to face this all.
When We could don't always think of those negative, That could more inclusion a little to object, More praise, With this to cover its flaw, So our states, It will really change much.
There is more recognized don't easy for our meeting, More got to cherish at present, With object life concord, Feel a piece of satisfy, Known the object actually it is good, This passage of relationship was nice.
The person's lifetime always has much of setbacks, The emotions most Not perfectly imagined.
Nevertheless, We still believe it, To believe that relationship it existed.
Late, Just make clear of the self really require, Seriously a little, Actively a little, let self to found that people.
The people have found it, The matter It was successful be half of suppose, The next to, To learn good each love.
With object good to touch and communication, Found a kind of each could good matched, Both side feeling very enjoy, The each other keep a part of independent, Meanwhile could together good matched concord.
Generous a few, Less expected a few, Loving object, Meanwhile good to loving too.
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