Because most of “the signs” they tell you are garbage If you try to Google “how to know you’re in love,” you’re gonna have a bad time Because it’s mostly shit advice. Here’s a small sampling: “They’re always on your mind” This is infatuation. If someone’s “always” on your mind, you’re not focused on other Really Important Things. And that’s a problem. Real love fits into real life, rather than usurping it. It’s calm, not overwhelming. They’re your ‘everything’” Ditto. “You see them in your future” “When I imagined my future job/location/adopted dog, they were always in the background of my imagination helping me out with whatever I was doing. My future just didn’t really make sense without them around.” Well, I mean, damn. You fantasize long and hard enough, you can see anything in your future — like I could imagine moving to Switzerland to be a goat farmer. That doesn’t mean I should. The problem is that we’ve made “love” into a game of escapism, and measure potential partners by how
The love, If you love it, of course, should be good to pursue, soon possible make object stay at self near.
Let each other together life in the current time, Let each other have a good future.
When If had been a pursuit later, that discover the object dislike self, each other just has self's the dreams, so the best way do not to bother else, give the object freedom who wants which lifestyle, We are also should learn how do to put down, Do not always focus on life in the past, either each good together, either each directly forget it, restart the new life.
Talking about this, love should of this, simple and very direct a little.
The real life, it isn't proper to directly understand and smooth, as mankind, We are also impossible own very smart and intelligent, who really could hold on and could put down the certain thing, which could quite calculate and divide benefit that people, suppose exit this person it only belongs the fewer people.
The more it is, We are not definitely own the courage to pursue it, suppose when one person has left our life and the sight line, no longer has any contact, We are not definitely really could no longer miss it, that might still would remember the object.
The hide of love ever hasn't confession to object of that people
lifetime of plenty the people, most of people ever have one times of the hidden love.
The sneaky love the certain people, who silently follow the object of the all-life track, while always for this so caused self to mess up every-moment, Which really very like the object, but that a piece of mood, always and just cover under in heart deeply.
Occasional hope the object wants to know self of mood, which put this layer relation explicitly decide down, while too who afraid the object might would know, which the object suppose if don't love self, so at that time self probably set awkward states.
So who always very caution go to defend self until each other has been seperate that one day, also never has been done some what.
With the time flies, gradually, originally to think might self would forget the object, But might self still has like it, the object might couldn't know in ever, so self always couldn't release it in the heart.
though pass several years, the self has been growth, who has been experienced plenty of changed and move, but for that people, the self inner heart still stay that original place, which still the original feature,
in memory that people, also always of that.
throughout always set previously that quite bright and shine.
though suppose explicitly has been known the object has been happened pretty big changed.
Even became self has been couldn't recognize that imagine, who still insist in heart that piece of desire, throughout let the object imagine of the previous that character, that still would desire in ever that image of the object.
Each other have been attracted, didn't have happen a little what in ever.
Two people mutual attract, basic to said, we are could would feeling the object the good attract, the object also attention,too.
Each other has attract, look the each the eyes, it very special and not same, for the object the attitude, also would not different.
Since it is that the each, of course, won`t only just watch both the eyes, each others both also discover both the little tinny act, silently, even have the else some the little act nobody attention, occasional would due to some the tinny little action caused love the object.
When each other both attract and love, together both, that seems it is very reasonable and originally, that shouldn't have what tortuous, but the anything doesn't have who could prediction, it is cause the time and the suffer and kind the reason, the each other probably really not definitely proper might good love.
Then, might don`t have announced confession in time, formally together, and each other has been separated.
Since that, once each other have the self the life, who suppose at previously has been known the object the adore, also not definitely who has the courage to contact the object, go let each other emotions continue on, make each others relation decided.
who has numerous times wants to do and to say, also always couldn't open the mouth, who afraid in ever it is self single-side crush, who afraid it wasn't self wants that one side.
So, the all of impulses, become who wants to say and wants to stop it too, has been became various inferences, didn't know the object it is how in current, just inner heart deeply, always still have miss and love.
Each love has been separate, always still missing
of course, also some each attracts and like, they are have been reach target, the two people properly became a pair of lovers, together walked a passage the road
walked a moment, both always didn't have together walked on, in certain days, each others choice the different the road go ahead.
Separated, and what it is a peaceful peaceful breakup, it is has been suffer some hurt or it is each agree or it is else the reason, originally to said, it is self of the pickup, self already no longer like the object, but that the enjoy, it didn't so easily cut.
If only when each other separate very painful, sense the object not fit self, much of the place it not good, but when has been through some time, beginning forgot the object those not good one side, think the object the good one side in the heart.
which would mean cover the dark one side of the past, also would purpose trim the object, especially when us didn't have found the comfortable the object, it is very easy always fall into the past that life, the more could imagine the object it is quite good the character.
Even to say, suppose have the love then, but in current self quite not satisfied, not know not feeling, also would compare the former and in ever, right now beginning the former best than now, and much a piece of the like.
mankind always it is as this, who would always miss in past, would feel the all it is what fine.
which is very difficult but could be done fine in the current, no regret in the past, just would very easily sense pity, always feeling the all it shouldn't as now image.
a lifetime, we are would meeting numerous people.
most of the people for us to said, it didn`t what no different, but also always has exist a people, it would very different.
Who does not exist our in life, but it always exists us in brains.
Didn't has any link, and no longer has the contact, but it is still very like too, it has a kind of else emotions.
The best it is, we are soon probably not have those people, not painful by the past, If suppose really it has that people appear, it could sneakily miss, but definitely doesn't have beyond effect in present.
Not because that people, make self no longer love, but still restart the new beginning of a passage the love.
Has been entering in a passage new emotions, absolutely good to hold on in the current, absolutely do not because a fantasy, affect in the current of happiness.
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