Because most of “the signs” they tell you are garbage If you try to Google “how to know you’re in love,” you’re gonna have a bad time Because it’s mostly shit advice. Here’s a small sampling: “They’re always on your mind” This is infatuation. If someone’s “always” on your mind, you’re not focused on other Really Important Things. And that’s a problem. Real love fits into real life, rather than usurping it. It’s calm, not overwhelming. They’re your ‘everything’” Ditto. “You see them in your future” “When I imagined my future job/location/adopted dog, they were always in the background of my imagination helping me out with whatever I was doing. My future just didn’t really make sense without them around.” Well, I mean, damn. You fantasize long and hard enough, you can see anything in your future — like I could imagine moving to Switzerland to be a goat farmer. That doesn’t mean I should. The problem is that we’ve made “love” into a game of escapism, and measure potential partners by how
Fall in love, that basically as a sweet
each other always would sincerely watch others-side, always would in a day and a day, who sense a bunch of happiness。
Also just due to the love always so sweet and happy, so we are own that courage, in a certain day, holds on the certain people of hand, along enter the marriage with him, along with each life in the same family, from love to get married, we are always to think that sweet definite could extend, When get married after we are discovering, the all wasn‘t so easy, when along to life, would discover exist frequently plenty of issues, a little of small stuff, also will make each other doesn’t funny, one sentence the words, who would cause each other produce disgusting, before whenever how to love again, numerous of the relationship as one-side and one-side to go, also will get result and feedback directly couldn‘t continue to go。 I don’t know how to associate, even if deep love also won‘t have any function。 know each association, the emotions probably longer。
Willing communication also could good to talking
Many lovers, each other both haven’t along to the end, that rather than doesn‘t love, but it only exists some misunderstand, even to say, those misunderstand, in fact, special less, just one or two-sentence the words, it could be said very clearly。
But it obviously so good to resolution, when found the problem and when has been happened the misunderstand who one of not willing to ask, the another not willing to answer, both all let the issue hide in the heart, then each the opinion produce, gradually rise until the others side doesn‘t self that degree, beginning choose each split and separate。
Doesn‘t have good the method to the communication of two people, It’s very difficult association whenever it has how well。 also would be very easy them to haven‘t in future。 because always has a piece of little stuff and opinion will let each other produce opinion, No ability to throughout it
when in the passage of relationship, as to discover the issue, If both willing together to approach, statement self in heart of that real opinion, various of emotions also would easy get resolution。
Not only does the issue get resolution, but each other also would a little mutual realize the others side, but the emotions will also become good and better。 two people in association, most of the time, Who communicates throughout could solve roughly probably up 80% of issues。 whom might know of communication rather important, But as the emotions came, whenever it‘s men or women, both also have some complain, at all won’t have harmonious of atmosphere。 If couldn‘t do so good to consult。 If known could do it or Not, the result has a bit different。
Mutual more go to inclusion。
Choose one person with self together, numerous seem like a form of curious, who love the others-side on body flashlight point, If didn‘t has some very excellent of place, always hope the others go to change it。
Change off some not good of character and change off some not good of the life behavior and else interesting favorite。
either get married before, who has been cleared of the others real image, a fantasy that the blessing, either each together after, gradually has been discovered of others some flaw, attempt to make others make changes。
As sense the others love self, should go to change it, feeling self make the others change, It’s good for others。
We are willing to think, this looks like so proper, but we are absolutely don‘t forget, the people didn’t have percent hundred of perfect, we are self it’s impossible throughout satisfy for others, our love who couldn‘t reach it, that actually also very normal。
Hasn‘t who in this world, really could make the others throughout satisfy, we also not throughout satisfy for others, opposite of the others not satisfy to us
in this case, always wants the others side attempt to change, make others become of own wants that image, this won‘t have too much of effect, opposite of would be caused others hate and disgusting, affect between them of relationship association, The better it is, we are realized to the opposite side, look and found others advantage, and also love of others a bit of lack point, like the others in totally it’s us enjoy, around that small lack-point, doesn‘t go to discuss, more for opposite of some inclusion。
more focus on, proper to changed self。
the couple along the life, as more long they two people together, each other not satisfy who caused more many, we are mind for others what, the others definitely sense, opposite them mind us what, we are, in fact, could sense。 Who has numerous of not satisfying, If wants to change the others, You should unnecessary embrace too many of wish, But we own, should understand the better could base on the others of require and according to knowledge, go to do some adjustment, that‘s doesn’t the head nod toward down for others, it‘s for own could have the best of life in the future, who only for this passage relationship go to the effort。 all of the relationships, It’s impossible throughout the match, that‘s need each other along to slowly touch, it’s need spent time。 as each other very seriously to this stage emotion, Not always to thinking which piece of stuff has won or has lost, just with opposite along found the best of association ways, each others relationship gradually reach stable。
The life as well, and the emotions, too, them need seriously both, needs keep on the plant, and more a little of revise。
Put the issue source to others, and else place, we are certainly getting too difficult growth, and so difficult seriously life happiness, As we are just from own body found the issue, just go to changed self, the all it‘s really would bring the more good。
which ways make the emotion became long, good to communication, inclusion own and changed。
each other could resolution against opinion, who inclusion could enable let the opposite gets a piece of realized, who has changed enable let each other's association gets the best。 As we are could do good below those, Oneself pick up that person, oneself with others good along, the next association really would become good。 who own wants those form of marriage, in marriage as well, each other's mutual feeling very comfortable, sense self had found proper that person, Now so pretty, in the future also will feeling so deserve to expect。
We all want a passage of the pretty emotions, but the good of emotions, it‘s so hardly naturally exist。
all each other as together then good to pressure and each other mutual to treat double-side。
The love, that was a kind of ability, in love to thinking, also as in love a person, keep on progress。
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