Because most of “the signs” they tell you are garbage If you try to Google “how to know you’re in love,” you’re gonna have a bad time Because it’s mostly shit advice. Here’s a small sampling: “They’re always on your mind” This is infatuation. If someone’s “always” on your mind, you’re not focused on other Really Important Things. And that’s a problem. Real love fits into real life, rather than usurping it. It’s calm, not overwhelming. They’re your ‘everything’” Ditto. “You see them in your future” “When I imagined my future job/location/adopted dog, they were always in the background of my imagination helping me out with whatever I was doing. My future just didn’t really make sense without them around.” Well, I mean, damn. You fantasize long and hard enough, you can see anything in your future — like I could imagine moving to Switzerland to be a goat farmer. That doesn’t mean I should. The problem is that we’ve made “love” into a game of escapism, and measure potential partners by how
Mainly， soon before the age of 30 years old married make self， isn‘t say 30 years age after without men marry you， it‘s optional less than previous。 If you haven’t reach the age for 30 years old， you might think to doubt the boyfriend family's economy condition and poverty， can gradually carefully observe whether with potential ability， whether marriage later to brings very safe you， If you are over 30 years old， don‘t be considered too much so， you boyfriend poverty who wait for you reach 30 years old， so why not hunt a young and beautiful girlfriend？ second， don‘t be down marry， just down marry the girl basic depressed in the end， here I say “down marry” are wish you can objectively comment yourself， for self have a clear location If salary per month 3000 dollars， age over forty years old still feel self are eighteen years old age little fairy， down marry isn’t say boyfriend earn money less with you compare， your growth environment and living environment can‘t differ too much， special is money value viewpoint need close。 third， hunt for education close to you and age， in marriage education conflict and age conflict both impossible adjustment， remembered education close， If you‘re in college can up hunt a university， but soon don‘t be hunt a doctor up。 Fourth， let him take you to meet his parents， then you need to go to observe his parent's usual how to harmonious， Because his father's attitude to mother's attitude， when you‘re married can react him to your attitude。
Fifth， for marriage、and man， you must own intelligence recognize， absolutely don‘t be that think self beautiful and good body， you must know and admit ”qiangdong” and “Yunding” really very excellent， entire country 90 percent the men if reach this altitude， absolute private life mess up than them both， you can attract else men can‘t behalf will attract else already tired men。
sixth， promise to quarrel， but don’t be a cold quarrel and don’t behave mutually disgusting, I have seen too many women due to anger make each other separate， then several boyfriends with other girls who get married， and finally regret always， don’t have any function。
seventh， while have chosen a situation down， choose one take you to see the world of men， when him with you together， you will discover the world become big because of him， rather than become less and less， If you discover this section relationship ability do better， so this man must hunt him。
eighth， while each other both with a relationship promises no money， marriage absolute Not， doesn‘t say own too much money， but at least while you are pregnant and have a baby period own economic guarantee， your boyfriend has no money， and you have no money also not don‘t be getting married， If while getting married because no money husband cheating on you don‘t know how to do。
ninth， marriage before must cohabitation， this not explain（doesn‘t mean roommate）
tenth， before marriage most need communication below three pieces things， money， lifeways， and child。
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