Because most of “the signs” they tell you are garbage If you try to Google “how to know you’re in love,” you’re gonna have a bad time Because it’s mostly shit advice. Here’s a small sampling: “They’re always on your mind” This is infatuation. If someone’s “always” on your mind, you’re not focused on other Really Important Things. And that’s a problem. Real love fits into real life, rather than usurping it. It’s calm, not overwhelming. They’re your ‘everything’” Ditto. “You see them in your future” “When I imagined my future job/location/adopted dog, they were always in the background of my imagination helping me out with whatever I was doing. My future just didn’t really make sense without them around.” Well, I mean, damn. You fantasize long and hard enough, you can see anything in your future — like I could imagine moving to Switzerland to be a goat farmer. That doesn’t mean I should. The problem is that we’ve made “love” into a game of escapism, and measure potential partners by how
I always think，if two people get married，so become a family ，money and wealth shouldn‘t calculation so clear and understand，although said relative between brother calculates account book statement，but a spouse with brother between are completely different concept，beacuse spouse support one family，mutual accompany，also mutual common feed the children，if common calculation account book statement，so it‘s too boring？ also twist the marriage essence。 I have a friend，had been married for two years，last year right now have a baby girl，the life looks very happy。 herself open an apparel shop，shop business very good，husband is civil servant，earn money not less，job stable，the mother/father-in-law and patents have pension，either the body health，no diease，till before today，I always think her life quite and special happiness，shouldn't have satisfied the place Noon we are at canteen eat rice，during lunch always have spoken and talking，then she drinks little wine，his face has appeared the