the spouse if they are divorced, it‘s whether the need to interfere with the opposite side the life?
spouse together life, whatever it‘s what the reason to cause divorce, we don’t advice both as common enemy, lifetime not to connect each other, but also don‘t support both frequently to connected, mutual interference the other-side life。
The last time the child of the father come to look at the children, for I recommend all kinds of health medicine, I am so hateful, he often makes me eat these and that medicine, his original purpose for me have a good body, but I persist my principle, absolutely can‘t eat all kinds of medicine, these very important things, talk to about change makes me purchase elevator house, he said to me: you petty, earn too many money don‘t spend it。his words seem to like him give me left some money。 I immediately said to him: our marriage has ended, and my life start a new life, why did you come to bother and interfere with me? I like and live in a very clean environment life。 he heard so confused, he never consider I already changed so much。 due to my actively quit out, choosing to agree with you, and you also have a new family and a child, each other, not interference with other-side the life it‘s the better respect and blesses, due to the child, we are emotional still exit, I learned to put down, accept reality, changed self。 I won’t go with interference your life, the same you also don’t interfere me then
right now my colleague has come here, her doing act make a person very stunning, the colleague has been divorced for many years, the original she is nudity quit family, always at outside rent house live。 the child belongs to his dad, and once she has a holiday she goes to her ex-husband's family live, explain say: for taking care of the children, gives the children a complete family sense, the child has grown an adult already, knows the parent's things, needs still keep pretend? eat and live life together have a bit not good。 I have asked the colleague for ideas, and she at all doesn‘t have to remarry that plan, No have need to continue to bother with his life, also to checking ex-husband the phone chat record, also request him in special the day give her to send a red-packet, request take her to go to the restaurant。 point to work for else person, and family stuff point to..., take the key into and out ex-husband's family。 the best can‘t let people understand who invited her parents and sibling to her ex-husband's family dinner party。 I have many times advised her don‘t interfere other-side the life, don’t be making that person look down on her, don‘t let the children look down on you, she still goes on that...I advise her whenever doing anything must have a principle and bottom line, otherwise, the pain only is the self。
love although make people forward, the marriage might not be very perfect, whatever, we should accept the reality that ability,when the spouse is together good to pressure, if real mutual separation,so go to accept each other, don‘t go to torment both so tired。 shut down and restart new life, might will more comforted self
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