Because most of “the signs” they tell you are garbage If you try to Google “how to know you’re in love,” you’re gonna have a bad time Because it’s mostly shit advice. Here’s a small sampling: “They’re always on your mind” This is infatuation. If someone’s “always” on your mind, you’re not focused on other Really Important Things. And that’s a problem. Real love fits into real life, rather than usurping it. It’s calm, not overwhelming. They’re your ‘everything’” Ditto. “You see them in your future” “When I imagined my future job/location/adopted dog, they were always in the background of my imagination helping me out with whatever I was doing. My future just didn’t really make sense without them around.” Well, I mean, damn. You fantasize long and hard enough, you can see anything in your future — like I could imagine moving to Switzerland to be a goat farmer. That doesn’t mean I should. The problem is that we’ve made “love” into a game of escapism, and measure potential partners by how
when people talk love each other、betweent love， per people very like and pleasure to chat at all the time， even will embrace the phone silly。 in marriage，between love， them often due to lack of communication so cause produces the issue， health, and good communication，it‘s can pull close each other heart distance； if lack of communication， will cause each others gradually separate。 Today with Mr. Chen face to face talk too， I have some new recognized him， and fresh new again times for us each other recognized， this half year， we are mutually changed many， however these things all source from we’re ability each other sit down to talk again， Mr cheng so good person， Opposite of me always release self-personality，per people has emotions， when the time was long， will produce some issue， between us communication became less， I think and always make this issue belongs Mr cheng， i also have the bigger responsibility， lack communication of marriage will make person can‘t breathe， h