Neighborhood to ask: unmarried pregnancy, the children concealed and take go by boyfriend, Who a lawsuit to the court, claim to pay alimony, how should do?
talk about this stuff with my elder sister of encounter too similar, the elder sister and ex-husband‘s the child by another person sneakily concealed, now the children already reach 15 age old years, the children didn‘t have to see the mother, don’t know my elder sister how to experienced those。
my elder sister with her ex-husband originally belong to a high school classmate, and my elder sister non-graduated from high school and take boyfriend home, my elder sister‘s mother seen take his boyfriend back to the family, at that time I right now 12 age old years, and I that old second aunt sneakily with me said: go with sister together a room, so these a few days, always let me together with a room with elder sister, she boyfriend alone to sleep, then saw she boyfriend to her so good, whenever to go where take me elder sister go, after I the second aunt promised their marriage, they are getting married。
when they get married, there is a condition, the men on one side must everything follow my aunt's family, and the children also need a girl's family to take care of, if need to develop the same needs in the girl's hometown, the reason it‘s poverty indeed。 the first year, the two family people so good and harmonious, but gradually, that boy feels no method to bear my aunt's family, because while he was rather little made mistakes and get despised by his aunt。 finally certain day burst, the two people beginning quarrel and decide to divorce, right now they're children only one year age-old around, and the boy’s parents need to claim the child, but my elder sister's family does not compromise, finally, didn’t know what the situation, the child takes to go by the boy‘s parents, even said if my elder sister if want to meet the child that impossible
at that time, my elder sister think a way to go to my mother-in-law to meet the child, but the opposite mother-in-law refused, and curse my elder sister the family despise them family poverty, no like their son, the result my elder sister the husband also stand at him mother one-side who after going my elder sister
my elder sister cries back at home, at those times, due to missing the child she almost not eat and was sleepless every day,, in the end, she thin so much。 the boy with my elder sister divorced, and my elder sister no method, in finally the child belongs to the boy family, now had past ten years almost, the child had 14-15 old years, the child-mother saw, and also don‘t know who’s his mother。
the couples both get divorced, the emotional, not harmony, to bear the suffering in finally it‘s child, what a pity also it’s the child, the children have what wrong? who‘s the mother the child also didn’t know, whenever how to hatred also cannot let the child prohibit met mother, finally let the elder sister per month payment a part of the alimony
personal advice: the girl should learn how to protect herself, don‘t be do not should do stuff while it does not belong your age period, self don‘t have to grow up who go to bear suddenly comes the responsibility, you’re growth, the child has birth must foster, yourself feed the seed, self to manage
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