Because most of “the signs” they tell you are garbage If you try to Google “how to know you’re in love,” you’re gonna have a bad time Because it’s mostly shit advice. Here’s a small sampling: “They’re always on your mind” This is infatuation. If someone’s “always” on your mind, you’re not focused on other Really Important Things. And that’s a problem. Real love fits into real life, rather than usurping it. It’s calm, not overwhelming. They’re your ‘everything’” Ditto. “You see them in your future” “When I imagined my future job/location/adopted dog, they were always in the background of my imagination helping me out with whatever I was doing. My future just didn’t really make sense without them around.” Well, I mean, damn. You fantasize long and hard enough, you can see anything in your future — like I could imagine moving to Switzerland to be a goat farmer. That doesn’t mean I should. The problem is that we’ve made “love” into a game of escapism, and measure potential partners by how
It‘s my intimate，while her married immediately pregnat，now the children for one year about，in primary that intimate think while the children rather big a little go to work，in finally at look job on the way always touch too much rough，also have always had the third one baby urge by mother-in-law，said the children between age mutual the smaller the better，now they can to help assistant to take care of children，, however, my intimate complain and collapse。
the first，familiy economic condition does not allow have two children：the second，she mother-in-law just talk so well，then absolutely will let herself take care of the children，she mother-in-law at all not will and less to manage：the third，she discovered while she has the baby，easy to sense her body health decrease too many，the memory also became weak ，when looking for a job，also always will meet not fair due to married and own baby。
however, at today，the policy already open which allow resident has three baby，this to female to say，it’s really so the effect in the future look job again，
if women do not work for regression family，so then pension it exists issue，no method normal to pay the social security insuarance，feed children cost will increase，besides feeding one child already very not easy，however it‘s three children！
my intimate at present it‘s so special pain，the most of problem just due to economic reason，mother-in-law family condition, not good，she husband unbale completely ability support one’s family economic，she early goes out to look job only this reason，but the neighbor not understand her，it‘s really hat much more。
intimate often with me complain said her unfortnatley，all kinds of the bad encounter，she feels almost melancholy soon，these let unmarried of me the more fear to married
so today this notice informed shocked me，personal sense this is a treatment standard and not a treatment resource，this can‘t from root to resolve the issue
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