Because most of “the signs” they tell you are garbage If you try to Google “how to know you’re in love,” you’re gonna have a bad time Because it’s mostly shit advice. Here’s a small sampling: “They’re always on your mind” This is infatuation. If someone’s “always” on your mind, you’re not focused on other Really Important Things. And that’s a problem. Real love fits into real life, rather than usurping it. It’s calm, not overwhelming. They’re your ‘everything’” Ditto. “You see them in your future” “When I imagined my future job/location/adopted dog, they were always in the background of my imagination helping me out with whatever I was doing. My future just didn’t really make sense without them around.” Well, I mean, damn. You fantasize long and hard enough, you can see anything in your future — like I could imagine moving to Switzerland to be a goat farmer. That doesn’t mean I should. The problem is that we’ve made “love” into a game of escapism, and measure potential partners by how
That a day afternoon， To seek for the many years who owe receipt of you ago， I opened most of the bottom layer of the drawer， and in the middle of position lay one pink color of the hard notebook， I not certainly and stand in there， turn off the primary page， one of pure white of envelope drop down， the right down corner wrote a person name“haijiang”
that morning the sunshine， so tender， the wind lightly blow the trees stem， and the bird lightly sing-song。 the “haijiang” embrace a bunch of rose flowers， so lightly and quickly come to here， classroom the atmosphere suddenly turns so quiet， The girls watched at“haijiang” and watched me， the boy flip his mouth， and loudly blow the whistle...
“haijiang” their face instantly turn flush， and he looks at me， just a silly smile， I shy down bow my head， pretended didn't see anything， after the table on appearing that bunches of rose flowers， also have an envelope letter， the right down corner write his name“haijiang”
We are together in that pretty of time smile， then graduated， the each other separated。
the bud shoulder beginning to bear the life of effort， I wandered， from this city to that city， from that city to another city too， have wind、have rain， but can't see the rainbow model！
the miss of shadow sketch long by the time，“haijiang” said to classmate： now i
can't find “pengguihong”！ I tear down cover the whole of my face，wrote a long letter to “haijiang” that gave me rose flowers 、and gave me the first love of that boy， that gave me of miss、accompany and wait for the happiness of that boy， I absolutely won't lose your any the message
Life isn't so generous， I effort every day between dawn and sunset， the tiredness filled my entire body！ In the middle night of light down， I read per letter from “haijiang” reward letters， the letter in have several photographs of him in condition， serious and nervous expression， let I can't hold laugh。
I say to“haijiang”： I am so scared as me lonely at night！ as I said this one sentence， My heart wishes it， hope he can invite me to another city， and also wish he wants me to accompany him。
But he no， that a year， I am 24 old years，“haijiang”23 old years， my heart gradually turn frozen cold， I start to wander too。 from this city to that city， from that city to another city too， just we are no longer connected ever
Many years after， I heard “haijing” do a furniture business， earns lots of money， bought a house yet， and bought luxury cars and married very beauty of the wife， have a cute baby......
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