Talk about genuine the love

 I think the reality of love 、genuine love should  below several characters

   One of the love I genuinely sense should have the most important passion inside， It's given to passion， or to say devoted to passion。 these it's looks like the morality of preach， But if you carefully think， the really love is such。 If you love a certain person It's genuine， You will thought for an object to do something， It's can't hold yourself， want make her happy， must have such an intense desire， and It's really doesn't demand a reward。 love should give it basic， It's

 a kind of devote passion, such a devotion passion wasn't the origin concept， isn't the origin of ethic morality， isn't the origin of responsibility either， It's the thorough origin of emotion。 If the certain person who said to love you， But just wants  take to her， only wants you to pay out so much， He doesn't have to give you passion， I do feel  It's just original sexual passion， that wasn't the  love

    There is the person in this world else， He probably won't give you forever， that is selfish of a person， he whenever follows who It's the same， It's not to say don't love you， Her even if especially love certain person，  especially love in his heart， But he still such。 he belongs to that kind of regardless person， It focuses on ego, Might you will meet such the person。 If you meet such a person， certainly， You will feel acceptable， But you demand mental and psyche to ready， Bear a prospective result。 I think such a person should have a shortage of ability love， if you make an idea link to me for help， I advice you to give up。 this one situation。 another situation is, It was a normal person, Mine meaning was,  It wasn't a special selfie,  He has pay out the ability,  If was genuine the love, He do pay out much, But he doesn't necessary for you to impulse, He don't want to do something for you, If as such situations, I thought have the ability to make a decision, He wasn't truly love you,  At least, love degree too weak.

  I perceive between couples love, mutual help, have passion, and encouragement,  If you take care of her, the opposite, She does for you, too.  Important it was care about a certain person,  This was the love of sign,  the soul matched,  This was emotions most naturally exhibit, This was the real origin in your heart  amid reality,  definitely get painful, this my believe, Per people want to help someone, No one will keep  to this step, He don't was take care else,  I had said, on this world， Per person was lonely, 

， when you get born as a nude who came to this earth，  from don't drop down to not exist， Eventually it back to the original doesn't exist, too.  When you encounter and happed accident, No one parents could embrace to protect you, you think how many children got cancer in this world, for parents still haven't methods, So when you grow up in the future, still same, isn't it? When you growth , you have meet a natural incident that could protect you, So I said,  Our per person was lonely in the world, So each procedure in loving, I guess a normal of couple relationship should was mutual take care, You take care her, contrary, He does as you.

 If one person doesn't care to others,  I feel the object its inner heart crack, It Might was love degree don't reach,  Frequently have people ask about this problem, like a couple in loving, The love and certain people which more important, for example, I and he befriend,  I love him very much,  Not this point I need to make a decision,  Whether need to continue keep on this passage relationship, If I love him, Though he doesn't love me, I also accept, So I probably to make a decision whether to continue  each relationship, If was this case, I deserve to doubt this passage relationship, somethings, this was a very worth to do things, If  have more and best to choice, immediately over this accept.

Same importance the person, the couple impossible shortage, You love was a people,  The love nobody hope just always to pay out much more, Who doesn't want to get a reward,  This doesn't only just claim and reward argue. the time longer, one side intense emotion cause sorrow, actually, one side is soft-weak that person same won't sense special satisfaction in loving, both side satisfy and fear it depend on of another side puff soft emotion,  For example, "A love B" ten score, contrary  "B" love "A" five score,  They both same get ten scores of satisfy, Left five score life in lack, " A" very pity, "B" this was a tragic, Dive in danger in.  another a point, I think will let each love to stay a  very long time, rather than temporary, If the time shortly, Just one charm, I think that might be sexual love When you sparkle eyes fall in love, Might it will quickly, But his desire in the past, forgot him tomorrow, of course, this wasn't the love,  Might loving between each, but couple them won't life to long the time, 

， each other will found various of had behavior， So each other can't keep on silent， You can say： this is a part of the love？ I feel cannot say， Only say the love of survival time， should have the bottom， This love for a quality guarantee。 If under this limit， the time was temporary， though time so hot， both sides of emotion experience and don't have rest deeper crack， that's just can say a part of the charm， cannot as love。 this truth I feel so simple， so don't say anymore

    The third point， I think the reality of loving watching， rather than various loving happened to many people, I feel this was impossible, Meanwhile to many people have a good to touch, This might probably,  The love with happened on many people bodies, This problem complex, I feel the argue possible bigger, The love here to say, I very love him, My beloved that person, But I meanwhile loved another people, This situation was frequently to happened, When you have loved certain person after, You still probably to another person produce a good emotion, and you still was attracted by other people, This was genuine, at this point, Whether was single whether heterosexual love, I guess most for argue was its emotion and sexual