Because most of “the signs” they tell you are garbage If you try to Google “how to know you’re in love,” you’re gonna have a bad time Because it’s mostly shit advice. Here’s a small sampling: “They’re always on your mind” This is infatuation. If someone’s “always” on your mind, you’re not focused on other Really Important Things. And that’s a problem. Real love fits into real life, rather than usurping it. It’s calm, not overwhelming. They’re your ‘everything’” Ditto. “You see them in your future” “When I imagined my future job/location/adopted dog, they were always in the background of my imagination helping me out with whatever I was doing. My future just didn’t really make sense without them around.” Well, I mean, damn. You fantasize long and hard enough, you can see anything in your future — like I could imagine moving to Switzerland to be a goat farmer. That doesn’t mean I should. The problem is that we’ve made “love” into a game of escapism, and measure potential partners by how
I and him each other together yet for a long time， that was four years ago in January。 That's us are exam in the high school while enter the university that one year。
It's the sole high school in our hometown where we are together learning at that school， and both our exam score belongs to the top of a grade in the class， Maybe， at this time someone familiar me will say： Does why you have to the third-grade class the college when you learn and once again to study？ But just the sole middle school of our small town common school, different from the city school various of ability to choose from， all of the buddy exam score entire, and not wasn't quite a good atmosphere， Even if achievement belongs to the top of the class how's again， for instance, to say： you hunt the best a chick from nest also cannot beyond one ordinary of the phoenix， that's the reason。 He and I were deskmate when at school， and from the beginning, silently became don't want to take look each other in the eyes， cause？ no reason probably is puberty mess also probably is heterosexual of thrive。 Just this until graduated。 then My family moves to the scale big city My parent's for help me found the one near the school to learn again， and after one term the winter vacation has come， seems so corporate， both hands pat together along to corporation， Yes， we're room。 It looks very naive as well， two people don't have to see anything outside so together， submit the lover's friendship。 so we are emotions grow up from the school's public telephone。 Every weekend at noon， grab a classmate sleeping to rest for a while and so less to call the phone， I'm going there to call the phone for him， At the beginning every time he will ask which one？ understand him to be able to remember our public phone number。 so we speak about school on the phone， talk about family， talk about life。 don't have younger lovers present or intimate， some have only two hearts at different places each other care。
I go to study at school again that year， and he went to the south school to class， then when I graduated I went to the north， so just is that our emotions start to a different place， and always at a different place。 we are probably meeting three-four times every year， four years period we're separated two times almost。 so long time don't a meeting each other， don't hear each other， look at on phone words a row and a row and guess the opposite of the idea。 then we make a decision on what to do。 we are meeting times from half-year a times turn one month times， Everytimes meeting we are each other speak about some life of stuff， until now when I saw him that so appreciate myself making a decision first。
Present I graduated one month yet， We every week have half the time see each other， As nothing to do， each other go out to eat dinner and watch a movie， To life turn normal people to love， sometimes follow other people talk about this， they so surprise that what the ways able to insist reach four years of different place of love， I think we should appreciate our love start to other places。 If we are just beginning together each other， then at a different place， That we are each other impossible insist to the end that so too long time alone， But we're not， our emotions start to a different place， at a different place to corporation、raise， Now we're can so good to understand each other， and congratulations we still have each other!
I go to study at school again that year， and he went to the south school to class， then when I graduated I went to the north， so just is that our emotions start to a different place， and always at a different place。 we are probably meeting three-four times every year， four years period we're separated two times almost。 so long time don't a meeting each other， don't hear each other， look at on phone words a row and a row and guess the opposite of the idea。 then we make a decision on what to do。 we are meeting times from half-year a times turn one month times， Everytimes meeting we are each other speak about some life of stuff， until now when I saw him that so appreciate myself making a decision first。
Present I graduated one month yet， We every week have half the time see each other， As nothing to do， each other go out to eat dinner and watch a movie， To life turn normal people to love， sometimes follow other people talk about this， they so surprise that what the ways able to insist reach four years of different place of love， I think we should appreciate our love start to other places。 If we are just beginning together each other， then at a different place， That we are each other impossible insist to the end that so too long time alone， But we're not， our emotions start to a different place， at a different place to corporation、raise， Now we're can so good to understand each other， and congratulations we still have each other!
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