Because most of “the signs” they tell you are garbage If you try to Google “how to know you’re in love,” you’re gonna have a bad time Because it’s mostly shit advice. Here’s a small sampling: “They’re always on your mind” This is infatuation. If someone’s “always” on your mind, you’re not focused on other Really Important Things. And that’s a problem. Real love fits into real life, rather than usurping it. It’s calm, not overwhelming. They’re your ‘everything’” Ditto. “You see them in your future” “When I imagined my future job/location/adopted dog, they were always in the background of my imagination helping me out with whatever I was doing. My future just didn’t really make sense without them around.” Well, I mean, damn. You fantasize long and hard enough, you can see anything in your future — like I could imagine moving to Switzerland to be a goat farmer. That doesn’t mean I should. The problem is that we’ve made “love” into a game of escapism, and measure potential partners by how
“Hello, are you sister?” I get a phone from Beijing while I take a rest one day at noon, first, don’t want to hold this phone number, I felt this should be a crook phone, but the phone rang very long time, finally I turn right to skip a screen hang up, heard sweetness and lightly sounds of “arong” It really makes me exciting!
This phone let us mentally so fast back to the 1990 first the era When “arong” Was born, It’s a young girl of chick!
“arong” belong to my husband's old village aunt’s daughter, the primary school graduated after don’t have to go to school, When I have a son on maternity leave my husband’s mother take away go near the family home, at that time she was so shy and words not many, A pairs of the eye always sneakily watch me, then bow head funny sneak to smile, I louder call her to come by me, she was funny to go come here. “what are you look and what are you laugh”. I say “wrong”, “sister well look” “along” the eyes don’t have wink look at me, very sincerely to said me. Of course, I was very funny, I said; Did you will go there? “along” nod just like a wave, eyes carrying joy and expect! Aunt said;” emotions well,”arong” miss by your person, you are a city for her find a job, do anything no matter, the old sister should be careful of young sister”
When maternity leave is finished after I will go to :X” states working, little aunt follows me together arrival comes these “X” states help me take care of my children. When I working reach one month after, I received a letter from my husband’s village at my company security house, tear it and have a look, and discover the letter was “arong” written and written to me. See very neat letter and excellent on the paper by “arong” see her want to go to city expect let me a reminder with her talk.
I wrote a letter the same day or the night to so cute cousin”arong”, inviting her to come “X” states see me. “arong” arrived and brought joy to my little aunt, the most thing she have someone to chat with her. I gave “arong” to find a job in my company does canteen, she was very satisfied, this a job so sincerely to do! So fast we are friends so like this honest and hard-working village little sister.
“arong” turn cuter and more beautiful, with the age gradually get big growth, There are many people who come here to help “arong” reminder “marriage”, Freinds help for “arong” introduce one person not local that Hangzhou comes “X” states. The first time see this young person we think; so handsome, be able to be hard-working, It’s no matter, just as “arong” the parents agree with this young man. In the middle of “arong” with “Hangzhou young men” have a bit quarrel, almost reach approach fight, Just this old sister of me helps them, therefore always happy until the present, At present while he calls a phone in her mouth sometimes reminds that things said to want to appreciate me!
The 1995 year “arong” was born, with “Hangzhou young man” back to Hangzhou city, apart for twenty years more than till now haven’t seen each other. She has a very clever son, has gone to high school, has her own house family, and the family very happy life. When her for us mailed slipper has some friends said;” the supermarket in everywhere have, don’t need such bothersome? I said, such a meaning not the same, though the gift is lightly meaning heavies, this my young sister cousin of nice heart! I must wear it, wear on feet, warm in heart, happiness around every day!”
She was very appreciative while on the internet; If I don’t have taken her away from rural, she certainly don’t see the outside world, also can’t come across her’s Hangzhou husband, also can’t go to the beautiful Hangzhou life! I often courage her this is your luck!
“arong” personality is so good, Girls need very well of character! Need hard-working obey do a better happiness women! “arong” character depend on her family, her family education is very tough because her husband’s family are big teams, There are many tough tutors! Wome’s no ability so that is well! So “arong” be able to get a husband and her husband’s mother/father love, all by her luck!
Time is a double knife, although makes us get to have haggardness and tiredness, we are between family emotions warm and deeper!
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