Because most of “the signs” they tell you are garbage If you try to Google “how to know you’re in love,” you’re gonna have a bad time Because it’s mostly shit advice. Here’s a small sampling: “They’re always on your mind” This is infatuation. If someone’s “always” on your mind, you’re not focused on other Really Important Things. And that’s a problem. Real love fits into real life, rather than usurping it. It’s calm, not overwhelming. They’re your ‘everything’” Ditto. “You see them in your future” “When I imagined my future job/location/adopted dog, they were always in the background of my imagination helping me out with whatever I was doing. My future just didn’t really make sense without them around.” Well, I mean, damn. You fantasize long and hard enough, you can see anything in your future — like I could imagine moving to Switzerland to be a goat farmer. That doesn’t mean I should. The problem is that we’ve made “love” into a game of escapism, and measure potential partners by how
In the middle-autumn festive, I went home to visit my parents, by the way, went to visit my aunt, Push open the door of my aunt’s house, my uncle and the women were peelings corn, I called my aunt, and the women turned around, I realized that the name was wrong. Then I Recognise them are family, because of too busy, She comes to help
The little uncle stands up immediately, smiles at me to say; your aunt's backache, went to the hospital to see a doctor. I discover that little uncle thin too much
I put down the presents for my aunt, and said to my uncle; I have to go...
Little uncle treats me to dinner at home, I Said;” NO, I have something to do, I’m busy now
Got home to my parent's house, and I and my little brother's wife said; this year that the uncle was so thin than previously why that?
My little brother's wife said; They grandson went to school in the county seat, little aunt in the county seat to cook for her grandson, and uncle home feet so many the pig and the sheep, also grow so many crops, It was too busy of tired, the past time little uncle probably tired and sick some times
He also said; the last time their eldest son's wife said; for children to go to school, buy a new house in the county city
My little aunt's family has two sons, the eldest son has been married for about seven-eight years, married the second years have a grandson for the little aunt.
The couple always worked outside, and the little grandson was left at home that little aunt's feet, before at home go to kindergarten, this year in first grade, the son's wife must go to county city to study.
My little aunt's home feet forty-fifty pigs, also have dozen sheep, also more than a dozen square of land. little aunt and little uncle are both too busy at home.
Grandson goes to county city to study now, little aunt goes to county city take children said the son wife, little uncle won’t make food a man, just finished on the land, go home what to eat some things, just for a long time, certainly be sick.
My little aunt's son almost reaches 30 age old years, hasn’t married, little aunt and little uncle are anxious about this, It’s often can’t sleep at night about this often anxiety.
They are hard-working for their life, and just want to earn more money, for their little son to the marriage
But they earn the most money last year, which were spent by the eldest son's wife for various reason.
Not to say the little aunt never gave any money for the children, even the tuition and the other things have to be paid by an aunt.
Last year they bought a car and spent more than 300000 CNY, down payment or the aunt's payment?
Then the eldest son's wife dared to that, the main reason is the youngest son hadn’t married, anxious the eldest son wife If don’t want common life again, the eldest became a single man, what should we do?
Remember little aunt while having a baby of the eldest son, little aunt very happy She said; Our family the best love is the son.
Little aunt has two baby son during two years at that time ago, little aunt family don’t be say so gilded, little aunt then want have a daughter always, but the final can’t get it she wants
Remember the last summer I went to my parents home once a time, by the way, to visit a little aunt and little uncle, little uncle look at me for a while said; eh, It’s better to have a daughter! the parents both own the daughter more happiness than the son, have two sons It really has no a few happiness.
Seriously It’s fact!in the countryside now, if have two sons, just marriage buy a house and buy a car, not excluding marriage multicolor presents, the lifetime worked to earn money not enough to pay cash gift!
After all, these are the faults of patriarchy.
I am more than 40 years old this year. At my age, there are many people who complain about bad things about my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and I belong to this kind of person.
But now in rural areas, such a circumstance should be rare. Mothers-in-law are worried about treating their daughter-in-law badly, and the son may not have a daughter-in-law in his life. After all, everyone knows how popular rural girls are.
In the countryside, even a divorced girl can easily find a boy who has never been married.
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