Because most of “the signs” they tell you are garbage If you try to Google “how to know you’re in love,” you’re gonna have a bad time Because it’s mostly shit advice. Here’s a small sampling: “They’re always on your mind” This is infatuation. If someone’s “always” on your mind, you’re not focused on other Really Important Things. And that’s a problem. Real love fits into real life, rather than usurping it. It’s calm, not overwhelming. They’re your ‘everything’” Ditto. “You see them in your future” “When I imagined my future job/location/adopted dog, they were always in the background of my imagination helping me out with whatever I was doing. My future just didn’t really make sense without them around.” Well, I mean, damn. You fantasize long and hard enough, you can see anything in your future — like I could imagine moving to Switzerland to be a goat farmer. That doesn’t mean I should. The problem is that we’ve made “love” into a game of escapism, and measure potential partners by how
We everyone of supertanker is sailing on the sea ,we ourselves are the only one helmsman and navigator,If Want not capsize at sea,,successfully reaching the lifetime to end,we are need hold the lifetime voyage direction
When we were young,parent are the leader for our growth,They led us learn walk and eat,learn use chopsticks,at that time our feel the parent is the most strongest supermen in world,however what difficult are able to resolved in their there。
With gradually to grow up,into reaching into the campus learn knowledge age,at above teacher's preaching,We also learn more knowledge and skills,at this time our lifetime leader who impart to knowledge for us a teacher's,under their preaching,we have more deep step to recognise of the world,we not only recognise what happens big and small stuff by near,also we recognise the society development from history,recognise the human how to step by step from barrenness to prosperity,from the backwardness to progress. realized where we grow up except on the earth on which we live,also have outer space,a universe...
Per one stage,we have some leader,but only was a stage,just likes when we were young,when are learned to walk,the parents will take off their hands ,let us go on by ourselves,however we have learned brave,along road to walk,while we are successfully at school,teacher's also will take off their hands,let's into the society big family continue go on walk of our life,this everyone must pass the walk,nobody can escape,also nobody can cross this a stage,at this time we probably will encounter many difficult and setbacks,we also eventually get lonely one person faces to meet all difficult problem,every times setbacks,must dare to face it,we can easier quickly adapt the development of society and survival,and thus have more stronger power, face the next most difficulties and setbacks;
The pilots belong to own,In our near no long have teachers,the parents no longer for us protect,all the wind and the rain need ourselves with body to resist,we are build belong to own armor,make ourselves more stronger,can withstand the next to storm,people lifetime always not will smoothly to the end,so need ourselves grasp correct direction,choose a route let self smoothly ashore route,so that our lifetime more reach perfection,
Everyone experience different and also experiences environments different,no one can lead walk for which,at this time us,It's leader or ourselves,arrive the top of mountain not only the one ways,the others people agility,can go one shortcut up,however i just a common people,to work harder,walk far for a little,around some a little slowly go up,eventually also walk the top of mountain,so this we need according to myself situation as self direction adjust,select the best that road to self beneficial,let us lifetime can go smoothly,It's not overturned in halfway,get it and loss again
Make better lifetime the leader for self,also just have oneself that leader person.
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