Because most of “the signs” they tell you are garbage If you try to Google “how to know you’re in love,” you’re gonna have a bad time Because it’s mostly shit advice. Here’s a small sampling: “They’re always on your mind” This is infatuation. If someone’s “always” on your mind, you’re not focused on other Really Important Things. And that’s a problem. Real love fits into real life, rather than usurping it. It’s calm, not overwhelming. They’re your ‘everything’” Ditto. “You see them in your future” “When I imagined my future job/location/adopted dog, they were always in the background of my imagination helping me out with whatever I was doing. My future just didn’t really make sense without them around.” Well, I mean, damn. You fantasize long and hard enough, you can see anything in your future — like I could imagine moving to Switzerland to be a goat farmer. That doesn’t mean I should. The problem is that we’ve made “love” into a game of escapism, and measure potential partners by how
宿捨一個女生，外表光鮮亮麗，長的有又高又瘦，還特別颯，也很有衣品，平常穿衣服什麼的也很好看，每天都要換新衣服，我還以為她的衣服很多呢。
但是就是這樣的一個人，她雖然每天都換衣服，但是換下來的衣服從來不洗，就放在凳子上晾一晾，然後過幾天接著穿，一直穿到有味之後，攢起來一起洗。
她的鞋子從來不刷，我親眼見到過她的一雙新買的小白鞋一直穿一直穿，從白色一直穿成了黃色。
冬天的時候，她也從來不洗腳，只有在洗澡的時候才會洗一洗吧。
因為，她就住在我的斜對面，所以我能清楚的看到她的床單那些髒髒的痕跡，還有一個人性。
這次回學校我們所有人的床單被子都沒什麼事，只有她的長滿了毛，宿捨一股長毛的味道，後來她把她的床單扔了之後，宿舍的味道才慢慢散發出去。
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