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 Because most of “the signs” they tell you are garbage If you try to Google “how to know you’re in love,” you’re gonna have a bad time Because it’s mostly shit advice. Here’s a small sampling: “They’re always on your mind” This is infatuation. If someone’s “always” on your mind, you’re not focused on other Really Important Things. And that’s a problem. Real love fits into real life, rather than usurping it. It’s calm, not overwhelming. They’re your ‘everything’” Ditto. “You see them in your future” “When I imagined my future job/location/adopted dog, they were always in the background of my imagination helping me out with whatever I was doing. My future just didn’t really make sense without them around.” Well, I mean, damn. You fantasize long and hard enough, you can see anything in your future — like I could imagine moving to Switzerland to be a goat farmer. That doesn’t mean I should. The problem is that we’ve made “love” into a game of escapism, and measure potential partners by how

為什麼富人越來越富,窮人越來越窮?一個故事告訴你真相


我們有沒有發現一個問題,就是窮人不管多麼努力,卻總是覺得自己在困境之中,辛苦了幾年,最後還是一無所有,喜歡的東西還是捨不得買。而富人不需要付出多大的勞動,甚至只要稍微辛苦一下,就能獲得窮人辛苦一輩子的財富。



現代人都說自己生活很苦,很忙碌,但是忙碌所帶來的價值,每個人都不一樣。比如有的設計師加班到凌晨三點,卻連一分錢加班費都沒有,而隨便一個明星工作到半夜12點就在網上叫苦連天,所收到的利益卻數以萬計。


於是就出現了一個大家都見怪不怪的現象,就是富人越來越富,時間越來越多,窮人越來越窮,時間越來越少。那麼出現貧富差距的原因到底是什麼?雖然我們沒有一個好的家庭背景,也絕非“憑藉自己努力最後終於繼承了家產”的秀兒,也沒有貴人的扶持和幫助,但是卻能依靠智慧和思維白手起家。


事實上,財富並非是最貴的東西,最貴的是你擁有的智慧和思維方式。比如下面這個故事,就充分反映了一個人思維方式的轉變,可以為自己創造多大的財富價值。


19世紀的美國加州,人們在當地發現了大型的金礦,這一消息迅速傳遍了整個城市,人們紛紛意識到這是一個發家致富的好時機,於是開始成群結隊的向金礦金發,這支隊伍被稱為“淘金隊”,而17歲的猶太人亞默爾,也是淘金隊中的一名成員。


當時的淘金隊人數可謂是人滿為患,人們越聚​​越多,有的人為了爭奪寶的甚至還大打出手,再加上當地氣候炎熱,人們更是苦不堪言。隨著時間的推移,金子是越來越少,但是人卻一天比一天多,很多人沒有發家致富,還浪費了很多時間。


猶太人亞默爾也沒有挖到金子,自己還累得上氣不接下氣,好幾次在這炎熱的天氣中幾乎暈厥。有一天亞默爾突發奇想,既然金子挖不到了,何不去賣水呢?於是他帶著挖金子的工具,尋找水源,並且挖開了一個水渠,再將水過濾之後,裝進了一個大桶裡,然後挑著桶來到挖金者的隊伍當中,以一壺、一袋的方式賣給那些口渴的淘金者。


亞默爾的這種做法被很多人嘲笑,人家都說來挖金子發家致富的,你卻在這裡賣水,這不是瞎胡鬧嗎?亞默爾聽到這些嘲諷,不為所動,在他看來,水是一個免費的資源,可以說是不需要任何投入,用免費的水去賣給大家,而且還沒有競爭者,這樣的好事從哪裡找尋呢?


就這樣,亞默爾依靠賣水在那段時間裡賺了好幾千美元,而那些淘金者卻大多數空手而回。要知道當時的幾千美元可是一筆不小的數目,即便放在今天也足以讓人生活得到極大的改觀。


其實我們回過頭來這個故事,亞默爾的賣水經歷告訴我們這樣一個道理,任何行業開始興起的時候,總會有一大幫人參與其中,這樣競爭力也就變大,實際上能吃到肉的也就那麼幾個人,其他人都是在白忙活。但是從另一個角度來說,一個行業的興起,必然會帶動另一個行業的興旺,只要我們能找到那個隱藏的行業,就能迅速從中獲得可觀的財富。


亞默爾的賣水思維,其實就是一種側面的思考。有的時候此路不通,很多人都會選擇不撞南牆不回頭,也有的人選擇返回原路,而聰明的人善於發現隱蔽的小路,從而獲得新的發展方向。


所以這個世界上真正的財富,並不是金錢貨幣,而是我們靈活多變的思維方式。一個人只要擁有靈活的思維,才能走出貧窮的困境,善於發現和創新,就不會一直貧窮下去!

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