Because most of “the signs” they tell you are garbage If you try to Google “how to know you’re in love,” you’re gonna have a bad time Because it’s mostly shit advice. Here’s a small sampling: “They’re always on your mind” This is infatuation. If someone’s “always” on your mind, you’re not focused on other Really Important Things. And that’s a problem. Real love fits into real life, rather than usurping it. It’s calm, not overwhelming. They’re your ‘everything’” Ditto. “You see them in your future” “When I imagined my future job/location/adopted dog, they were always in the background of my imagination helping me out with whatever I was doing. My future just didn’t really make sense without them around.” Well, I mean, damn. You fantasize long and hard enough, you can see anything in your future — like I could imagine moving to Switzerland to be a goat farmer. That doesn’t mean I should. The problem is that we’ve made “love” into a game of escapism, and measure potential partners by how
Suddenly to discover, in fact, everyone's life is not too easy, although usually always with a smile on the surface, looks like things never shortage, The life is good every day, in fact not light on the surface
Maybe occasionally will feel that someone doesn’t quite hate you, but everyone has their growth experience, You will forever not understand other people's experiences that is what’s kind of a lifetime.
We all think of the best ways let our life better the more and more, but the life sometimes also will change our shape, We can’t completely control the things happened or not, We can carry them down, but the hardship we have suffered will keep us in mind. It kind of tastes.
Still have to learn to understand others
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